我决定做我自己：如何停止与他人比较，从而学会爱自己

I Decided to Live as Me

基本信息

by Kim Suhyun (Author)

Format:Paperback / softback 272 pages

Publisher:Ebury Publishing

Imprint:Rider & Co

ISBN:9781846048371

Published:20 Nov 2025

Weight:200g

Dimensions:198 x 129 (mm)

页面参数仅供参考，具体以实物为准

书籍简介

这本百万册的韩国畅销书，由防弹少年团成员柾国在追随韩国流行天王防弹少年团的热门真人秀节目《Bon Voyage》中朗读！不要善待那些对你不友善的人。记住，没有人的人生是很好的。不要被别人的言论左右。

不要太努力地与所有人相处。金秀贤刚步入成人世界，就面临着残酷的现实。她眼中的世界，到处都是互相踩踏、互相攀比、​​追逐金钱、用社交媒体上不切实际的标准评判他人。

她似乎无法不与他人比较，也从未觉得自己足够好。金秀贤用安慰的话语和引人入胜的插图，激励你踏上自爱、自我接纳和自我同情的旅程。 《我决定做我自己》融合了自助和回忆录，将帮助你摆脱满足他人期望的压力，并专注于真正重要的事情：不为任何人而活，而为自己而活。

The million-copy Korean bestseller read by BTS's Jungkook on Bon Voyage, the hit reality TV show following K-pop sensation BTS!Don’t be kind to those who aren’t kind to you. Remember that no one lives a perfect life. Don’t be swayed by what others say.

Don’t try too hard to get along with everyone. As soon as Kim Suhyun graduated into the adult world, she faced a harsh reality. Everywhere she looked people stepped on each other to get ahead, obsessed over money, and judged others based on the unrealistic standards they saw on social media.

It seemed impossible not to compare herself to others and feel that she was ever good enough. With words of comfort and charming illustrations throughout, Kim Suhyun will inspire you on your own journey of self-love, self-acceptance and self-compassion. Blending self-help and memoir, I Decided to Live as Me will help you free yourself from the pressures of living up to other people’s expectations and focus on what truly matters: living not for anyone else, but for yourself.

作者简介

金秀贤（作者）

金秀贤是一位作家兼插画家，现居韩国首尔。她的著作在韩国销量超过200万册，《我决定活成我自己》也以十几种语言在全球出版发行。

安东·许（译者）

安东·许出生于瑞典斯德哥尔摩。他是韩国畅销书《我想死，但我想吃炒年糕》的译者，曾凭借姜敬爱的小说《地下村》荣获美国笔会翻译奖，他翻译的郑宝拉的小说《诅咒的兔子》也入围了国际布克奖。他现居韩国首尔。

Kim Suhyun (Author)

Kim Suhyun is a writer and illustrator based in Seoul, South Korea. Her books have sold more than 2 million copies in Korea, and I Decided to Live as Me is being published around the world in more than a dozen languages.

Anton Hur (Translator)

Anton Hur was born in Stockholm, Sweden. He is the translator of the runaway Korean bestseller, I Want to Die but I Want to Eat Tteokbokki, he won a PEN Translates award for Kang Kyeong-ae's The Underground Village, and his translation of Bora Chung's Cursed Bunny was shortlisted for the International Booker Prize. He lives in Seoul, South Korea.