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如何不孤老终生 How to Not Die Alone

基本信息

Format:Paperback / softback 352 pages

Publisher:Little, Brown Book Group

Imprint:Piatkus Books

ISBN:9780349442150

Published:4 Jan 2024

Weight:274g

Dimensions:125 x 198 x 25 (mm)

页面参数仅供参考，具体以实物为准

书籍简介

一本有趣而实用的指南，可帮助您找到、建立和维持梦想的关系。

你是否曾环顾四周并想知道，“为什么除了我之外，每个人都找到了真爱？” 美好的关系不仅仅出现在我们的生活中 - 它们是一系列决定的结果，包括与谁约会、如何结束它 错误的人，以及何时委身于正确的人。 但我们的大脑经常会妨碍我们。 我们会做出错误的决定，这会阻碍我们寻找持久的爱情。

行为科学家出身的约会教练洛根·尤里（Logan Ury）根据多年的研究，揭示了导致这些错误的隐藏力量。 但意识本身并不会带来结果。 你须真正改变你的行为。 尤里向您展示如何做到这一点。

本书每一章都侧重于不同的决定，融合了行为科学、原创研究和现实生活故事的见解。 你将学到：

•是什么阻碍了你约会（以及如何打破这种模式）

•对于长期合作伙伴来说，什么才是真正重要的（什么才是不重要的）

•如何克服在线约会的危险（并让应用程序为您服务）

•如何在现实生活中结识更多的人（同时做你喜欢的活动）

•如何让约会再次变得有趣（这样他们就不再感觉像是工作面试）

•为什么“火花”是一个神话（但无论如何你都会找到爱）

这本数据驱动的分步人际关系指南，配有实践练习，目的是改变您的生活。 如何不孤独地死去将帮助你找到、建立并维持你梦想的关系。

A funny and practical guide to help you find, build, and keep the relationship of your dreams.

Have you ever looked around and wondered, "Why has everyone found love except me?"Great relationships don't just appear in our lives - they're the culmination of a series of decisions, including who to date, how to end it with the wrong person, and when to commit to the right one. But our brains often get in the way. We make poor decisions, which thwart us on our quest to find lasting love.

Drawing from years of research, behavioral scientist turned dating coach Logan Ury reveals the hidden forces that cause those mistakes. But awareness on its own doesn't lead to results. You have to actually change your behavior. Ury shows you how.

This book focuses on a different decision in each chapter, incorporating insights from behavioral science, original research, and real-life stories. You'll learn:

•What's holding you back in dating (and how to break the pattern)

•What really matters in a long-term partner (and what really doesn't)

•How to overcome the perils of online dating (and make the apps work for you)

•How to meet more people in real life (while doing activities you love)

•How to make dates fun again (so they stop feeling like job interviews)

•Why "the spark" is a myth (but you'll find love anyway)

This data-driven, step-by-step guide to relationships, complete with hands-on exercises, is designed to transform your life. How to Not Die Alone will help you find, build, and keep the relationship of your dreams.

作者简介

洛根·尤里是一名行为经济学研究员和约会教练。她是Hinge的关系科学主任，在那里她共同领导着他们的研究实验室。她曾与丹·艾瑞里(Dan Ariely)一起管理行为经济学团队“非理性实验室”(Irrational Lab)。她创办了“谷歌谈话:现代浪漫”系列，在那里她采访了世界知名的约会和关系专家。她为《时代》、《茁壮成长》、《PopSugar》、《The Forward》、《P.S. I Love You》等杂志撰写过关于约会和人际关系的文章。

Logan Ury is a behavioral economics researcher and dating coach. She is director of relationship science at Hinge, where she co-leads their research lab. She formerly ran the Irrational Lab, behavioral economics team, alongside Dan Ariely. She started the Talks at Google: Modern Romance series, where she interviewed world-renowned dating and relationship experts. She's written about dating and relationships for TIME, Thrive Global, PopSugar, The Forward, P.S. I Love You, and more.