去情绪化管教 帮助孩子养成高情商 有教养的大脑 豆瓣阅读 英文原版 No Drama Discipline Daniel J Siegel

基本信息

By (author) Dr Daniel J Siegel , By (author) PH D Tina Payne Bryson

Format Paperback | 288 pages

Dimensions 130 x 201 x 18mm | 204g

Publication date 12 Jul 2016

Publisher Bantam

Language English

Edition Statement Reprint

Illustrations note Illustrations, unspecified

ISBN10 034554806X

ISBN13 9780345548061

页面参数仅供参考，具体以实物为准

内容简介

无须和孩子产生冲突，也无须愤怒、哭泣和沮丧

用爱与尊重的方式让孩子守规矩　使孩子朝着成功和幸福的人生方向前进

情商之父/丹尼尔•戈尔曼

儿童发展心理学家/陈忻

积极教养专家/刘建鸿

联袂推荐

世界知名儿童教养专家丹尼尔•西格尔全新力作

每一次管教都是塑造孩子大脑的关键时刻

开卷之前一个问题

就在突然之间，一只碗被扔出厨房，里面的牛奶和脆谷乐麦圈拍花了整面墙。

莫名其妙地，被涂成蓝色的狗狗从后院跑过来了。

你的某个孩子威吓了他的弟弟妹妹。

这是本月第三次接到来自校长办公室的电话了。

你该怎么办？

在回答这些问题之前，我们希望你能够完全抛开之前对于管教这个词的所有认识。忘记这个词的意思，忘记在孩子做了不应该做的事情时，你耳闻目睹的那些家长的反应吧。

反躬自问：在管教孩子这个问题上，你是否愿意至少动脑筋想想有没有其他方法？某种能够帮助孩子立即表现良好，并且从长远角度来看，能够使他们成为快乐、成功、温和、可靠且自律的优秀人才的方法？

如果你愿意，那么，我们也愿意将这本书献给你。

再也不怕管教孩子却导致事态愈演愈烈啦！

家长总是希望自己的管教方法不伤害孩子、温和慈爱、有礼有节，但有时就是控制不住自己的脾气，同时也觉得温和的管教方法收效甚微。

两位育儿先锋专家——丹尼尔•西格尔和蒂娜•佩妮•布赖森，要来攻克这一难题了！继畅销书《全脑教养法》之后，他们再度联手打造了这部全新力作《去情绪化管教，帮助孩子养成高情商、有教养的大脑》。

本书为家长指出一个有效又有爱的管教方式：通过爱与欢声笑语，而不是严厉训斥，来获取对于孩子更为有效的约束效果。

通过点明“管教”的真义是“教”，而非吼叫或者训斥，作者阐述了家长要保持理智，对孩子的情绪进行理性引导，将情绪崩溃的时刻变为让孩子成长的机会。

这样做能从根本上打破“错误行为—严厉惩罚—负面情绪”的恶性循环，不但使问题得到解决，而且让家长和孩子双赢。

本书将解释父母面对孩子的错误行为使用的管教方法与孩子大脑的健康发展之间的联系，展示了如何与孩子那正在发育的大脑打交道，帮助孩子建立有助于提高其情商的大脑连接，让孩子拥有更和谐的人际关系、更健康的精神状态和更有意义的人生。

你将会在本书中找到：

•有效的策略：帮助家长辨识自己的管教理念，并找到最佳方法向孩子传授

•科学的方法：在设下清晰一致的行为界限的同时，与孩子进行冷静而慈爱的情感连接——无论他们的行为有多过分

•好用的技巧：帮助孩子摆脱小脾气，获得决策能力、洞察力、共情心和自我修复能力

•20个优秀的父母也会犯的错误，让你防患于未然

•真实的小故事和有趣的插图，让你的阅读更加轻松愉快

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • The pioneering experts behind The Whole-Brain Child and The Yes Brain tackle the ultimate parenting challenge: discipline.

“A lot of fascinating insights . . . an eye-opener worth reading.”—Parents

Highlighting the fascinating link between a child’s neurological development and the way a parent reacts to misbehavior, No-Drama Discipline provides an effective, compassionate road map for dealing with tantrums, tensions, and tears—without causing a scene.

Defining the true meaning of the “d” word (to instruct, not to shout or reprimand), the authors explain how to reach your child, redirect emotions, and turn a meltdown into an opportunity for growth. By doing so, the cycle of negative behavior (and punishment) is essentially brought to a halt, as problem solving becomes a win/win situation. Inside this sanity-saving guide you’ll discover

• strategies that help parents identify their own discipline philosophy—and master the best methods to communicate the lessons they are trying to impart

• facts on child brain development—and what kind of discipline is most appropriate and constructive at all ages and stages

• the way to calmly and lovingly connect with a child—no matter how extreme the behavior—while still setting clear and consistent limits

• tips for navigating your child through a tantrum to achieve insight, empathy, and repair

• twenty discipline mistakes even the best parents make—and how to stay focused on the principles of whole-brain parenting and discipline techniques

Complete with candid stories and playful illustrations that bring the authors’ suggestions to life, No-Drama Discipline shows you how to work with your child’s developing mind, peacefully resolve conflicts, and inspire happiness and strengthen resilience in everyone in the family.

Praise for No-Drama Discipline

“With lucid, engaging prose accompanied by cartoon illustrations, Siegel and Bryson help parents teach and communicate more effectively.”—Publishers Weekly

“Wow! This book grabbed me from the very first page and did not let go.”—Lawrence J. Cohen, Ph.D., author of The Opposite of Worry

作者简介

丹尼尔•西格尔（Daniel J. Siegel）

国际知名畅销书作家、获奖教育家、儿童精神病学家。

他毕业于哈佛大学医学院，获医学博士学位，现在是加州大学洛杉矶分校精神病学的临床教授、正念觉知研究中心的主任。同时，他创办了第七感研究所，并担任执行主任。第七感研究所的目的是在个人、家庭、组织和社群之间提升洞察力、同情心和共情能力。

丹尼尔•西格尔的著作颇丰，主题涵盖脑科学、心理治疗和儿童教养，其中包括国际畅销书《全脑教养法》《第七感》等。他也是诺顿专业书系——人际神经生物学系列的创始主编，该书系包括《疗愈创伤》《情绪的力量》《创伤和身体》。

他曾在世界各地做过许多次演讲，并为专业人士开办研讨班，深受欢迎。

蒂娜•佩妮•布赖森（Tina Payne Bryson）

儿童及青少年心理治疗师，第七感研究所现任家长教育主任，以及加利福尼亚州阿尔塔迪纳区圣马克学校的儿童发展专家。

她毕业于南加利福尼亚大学，获哲学博士学位。与丹尼尔•西格尔一起共同创作了畅销书《全脑教养法》。她给来自世界各地的家长，教育工作者和临床医生主持了多场会议和研讨会。

Daniel J. Siegel, M.D., is clinical professor of psychiatry at the UCLA School of Medicine, the founding co-director of the UCLA Mindful Awareness Research Center, and executive director of the Mindsight Institute. A graduate of Harvard Medical School, Dr. Siegel is the author of several books, including the New York Times bestsellers Brainstorm, Mind, and, with Tina Payne Bryson, The Whole-Brain Child and No-Drama Discipline. He is also the author of the bestsellers Mindsight and, with Mary Hartzell, Parenting from the Inside Out. He lives in Los Angeles with his wife, with welcome visits from their adult son and daughter. Tina Payne Bryson, Ph.D., is the co-author (with Dan Siegel) of the bestselling The Whole-Brain Child, which has been translated into eighteen languages. She is a pediatric and adolescent psychotherapist, the director of parenting for the Mindsight Institute, and the child development specialist at Saint Mark's School in Altadena, California. She keynotes conferences and conducts workshops for parents, educators, and clinicians all over the world. Dr. Bryson earned her Ph.D. from the University of Southern California, and she lives near Los Angeles with her husband and three children.