足够好的父母：如何养育知足、有趣、坚韧的孩子 The Good Enough Parent : how to raise contented, interesting and resilient people

基本信息

Format:Hardback 224 pages

Publisher:The School of Life Press

Imprint:The School of Life Press

ISBN:9781912891542

Published:9 Sep 2021

Weight:322g

Dimensions:132 x 186 x 21 (mm)

页面参数仅供参考，具体以实物为准

书籍简介

“对于准父母来说，这是一本很棒的书……对于有各个年龄段孩子的家庭来说，这本书都很有趣。”NADIYA HUSSAIN

将孩子培养成一个真实且精神健全的成年人是人生的一大挑战。幸运的是，这也不是运气的问题。有很多事情需要了解，比如孩子的思维方式以及他们需要照顾他们的人提供什么，这样他们才能发展成为更好的自己。

《足够好的父母》是一本课程汇编，包括如何对自己喜爱的孩子说“不”，如何透过“不良”行为的表面来找出真正发生的事情，如何鼓励孩子真诚善良，如何鼓励开放的自我表达，以及如何处理青春期的情绪和忧郁。

重要的是，这本书知道有缺陷是正常的——而且可能确实没有帮助，因为任何父母的主要工作都是让孩子温和地接受一切缺陷的本质。 《足够好的父母》以鼓舞人心、诙谐幽默的语气写成，融入了多年的经验，是一本养育孩子的明智指南，让孩子有一天会带着感激、幽默和爱的恰到好处的结合回顾自己的童年。

对于菲利帕·佩里的《你希望父母读过的书》和阿兰·德波顿的《生活学校：情感教育》的书友来说，这本简明的书是不容错过之作。

'This is a great book for expectant parents for sure... An interesting read with families who have young peopleof any age'NADIYA HUSSAIN

Raising a person to be an authentic and mentally robust adult is one of life’s great challenges. It is also, fortunately, not a matter of luck. There are many things to understand about how young people’s minds operate and what they need from those who look after them so they can develop into the best version of themselves.

The Good Enough Parent is a compendium of lessons, including ideas on how to say 'no' to a young person one adores, how to look beneath the surface of 'bad' behaviour to work out what might really be going on, how to encourage a young person to be genuinely kind, how to encourage open self expression, and how to handle the moods and gloom of adolescence.

Importantly, this is a book that knows that perfection is not required – and could indeed be unhelpful, because a key job of any parent is to induct a young person gently into the imperfect nature of everything. Written in a tone that is encouraging, wry and soaked in years of experience, The Good Enough Parent is an intelligent guide to raising a person who will one day look back on their young life with just the right mixture of gratitude, humour and love.

This concise book is indispensable reading for fans of Philippa Perry 's The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read, and Alain de Botton's The School of Life: An Emotional Education.

作者简介

生活学校是一个全球组织，致力于帮助人们过上更充实的生活。通过我们的书籍、礼品和文具系列，我们旨在激发人们更加深思熟虑的天性，帮助每个人找到充实感。生活学校是一个资源库，通过内容、社区和对话，您可以探索自我认知、人际关系、工作、社交、寻找平静和享受文化。您可以在网上、商店和世界各地的温馨空间找到我们，我们提供课程、活动和一对一治疗课程。生活学校是一个快速发展的全球品牌。生活学校出版社汇集了生活学校创意团队在系列编辑阿兰·德波顿 (Alain de Botton) 的指导下的想法和理念。他们的书籍分享了一个连贯、精心策划的信息，用一个声音传达：平静、安心和理智。

The School of Life is a global organisation helping people lead more fulfilled lives. Through our range of books, gifts and stationery we aim to prompt more thoughtful natures and help everyone to find fulfilment. The School of Life is a resource for exploring self-knowledge, relationships, work, socialising, finding calm and enjoying culture through content, community and conversation. You can find us online, in stores and in welcoming spaces around the world offering classes, events and one-to-one therapy sessions. The School of Life is a rapidly growing global brand. The School of Life Press brings together the thinking and ideas of the School of Life creative team under the direction of series editor, Alain de Botton. Their books share a coherent, curated message that speaks with one voice: calm, reassuring, and sane.