亲密陷阱：爱、欲望与平衡艺术 Mating in Captivity : How to keep desire and passion alive in long-term relationships

基本信息

Format Paperback | 272 pages

Dimensions 128 x 196 x 24mm | 200g

Publication date 20 Sep 2007

Publisher Hodder & Stoughton

Imprint Yellow Kite

ISBN: 9780340943755

页面参数仅供参考，具体以实物为准

内容简介

当你爱一个人的时候，是什么感觉？而当你渴望某人时，又有什么不同呢？

在《亲密陷阱》中，埃丝特·佩雷尔关注了合法夫妇中的性故事。现代浪漫主义展示了这一切--一生的团聚、亲密和欲望。在现实中，人们很少对自己已经拥有的东西产生欲望。我们对安全爱情的追求与我们对激情的追求相冲突。而且，往往使我们进入我们的关系的东西--欲望--就是在关系中消失的东西。

佩雷尔决心调和欲望和家庭，解释了为什么民主是卧室里的激情杀手。主张玩乐、距离和不确定性，并展示了将情欲带回家所需的条件。聪明、性感和爆炸性的原创，《亲密陷阱》是一夫一妻制者必不可少的床头读物。

When you love someone, how does it feel? And when you desire someone, how is it different?

In Mating in Captivity, Esther Perel looks at the story of sex in committed couples. Modern romance promises it all - a lifetime of togetherness, intimacy and desire. In reality, it's hard to want what you already have. Our quest for secure love conflicts with our pursuit of passion. And often, the very thing that got us to into our relationships - lust - is the one thing that goes missing from them.

Determined to reconcile the domestic, Perel explains why democracy is a passion killer in the bedroom. Argues for playfulness, distance, and uncertainty. And shows what it takes to bring lust home. Smart, sexy and explosively original, Mating in Captivity is the monogamist's essential bedside read.

作者简介

心理治疗师和《纽约时报》畅销书作者埃丝特·佩雷尔被认为是当今对现代关系极有洞察力和原创性的声音之一。她精通九种语言，在纽约市经营一家治疗机构，并为世界各地的财富500强公司担任组织顾问。她知名的TED演讲已经获得了超过3000万次的浏览量，她的国际畅销书《亲密陷阱》。她的国际畅销书《开启情欲智慧》是一种全球现象，已被翻译成近30种语言。她的全新著作是《纽约时报》的畅销书《事态》。重新思考不忠行为。埃丝特也是受欢迎的播客节目《我们应该从哪里开始》和《工作怎么样》的执行制片人和主持人。

Psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author Esther Perel is recognised as one of today's most insightful and original voices on modern relationships. Fluent in nine languages, she helms a therapy practice in New York City and serves as an organisational consultant for Fortune 500 companies around the world. Her celebrated TED Talks have garnered more than 30 million views and her international bestseller Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence is a global phenomenon that has been translated into nearly 30 languages. Her newest book is the New York Times bestseller The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity. Esther is also an executive producer and host of the popular podcasts Where Should We Begin? and How's Work?