战斗的艺术：冲突的转化力量 The Art of Fighting:The Transformative Power of Conflict

基本信息

Penguin Adult HC/TR | Riverhead Books

6"W x 9"H (15.2 x 22.9 cm) | 11 oz (322 g) | 24 per carton

On sale Sep 08, 2026 | 320 Pages | 9798217435166

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书籍简介

本书颠覆传统观念，深入探讨了我们如何争吵以及如何建立健康的冲突，作者是《聚会的艺术》的作者。

我们常说想要社群、成功的团队、高效的同事和工作场所、充满活力的朋友圈。然而，我们中的许多人却不明白，在生活中构建长久社群的关键要素是什么：健康的冲突。

在《争吵的艺术》一书中，普里亚·帕克解释说，没有争吵，我们就无法建立和发展有效的关系。她驳斥了冲突是不正常的，或者团队不会争吵的观点。所有团队都会改变和发展；事实上，正是因为存在分歧，团队才能蓬勃发展。

正如她在经典著作《聚会的艺术》中所做的那样，帕克借鉴了她作为冲突调解员的丰富经验、她自己详尽的研究以及真实案例，阐述了人们如何识别争端、确定如何解决争端，以及在争端难以克服时该如何应对。无论人们是在会议室、更衣室、操场、教堂、线上还是线下产生分歧，冲突都是生活的一部分。因此，理解健康的冲突以及如何驾驭它的力量比以往任何时候都更加重要。《格斗的艺术》是一本重要的入门读物，可以帮助我们所有人理解如何做到这一点。

A paradigm-shattering exploration of how we fight and how we build healthy conflict, from the author of The Art of Gathering

We say we want community. Successful teams. High-performing colleagues and workplaces. Dynamic friend groups. Yet many of us don’t understand the crucial element we need to forge long-lasting communities in our lives: healthy conflict.

In The Art of Fighting, Priya Parker explains that we can’t form and grow effective relationships without a fight. She rejects the idea that conflict is abnormal or that good groups don’t fight. All groups change and evolve; indeed, it’s because people disagree that good groups flourish.

As she did in the now-classic The Art of Gathering, Parker draws on her far-reaching experience as a conflict facilitator, her own detailed research, and real-world examples to lay out the ways that people can identify disputes, determine how to address them, and what to do if they are insurmountable. Whether people disagree in the boardroom or the locker room, on a playground or in church, online or in person, conflict is a part of life, and understanding healthy conflict and how to harness its power is more important than ever. The Art of Fighting is a vital primer to help all of us understand how to do that.

作者简介

普里亚·帕克是一位活动策划师、战略顾问，也是畅销书《聚会的艺术：我们如何相聚以及为何相聚至关重要》的作者。帕克接受过冲突解决领域的专业培训，曾在美国大学校园从事种族关系方面的工作，并在阿拉伯世界、南部非洲和印度参与和平进程。她曾在麻省理工学院学习组织设计，在哈佛大学肯尼迪学院学习公共政策，并在弗吉尼亚大学学习政治和社会思想。她与家人居住在纽约布鲁克林。

PRIYA PARKER is a facilitator, strategic advisor, and acclaimed author of The Art of Gathering: How We Meet and Why It Matters. Trained in the field of conflict resolution, Parker has worked on race relations on American college campuses and on peace processes in the Arab world, southern Africa, and India. She studied organizational design at MIT, public policy at the Harvard Kennedy School, and political and social thought at the University of Virginia. She lives with her family in Brooklyn, NY.