不要和你妈争辩 Things My Son Needs to Know About The World

基本信息

Format:Paperback / softback 208 pages

Publisher:Penguin Books Ltd

Imprint:Michael Joseph Ltd

ISBN:9780241534779

Published:27 May 2021

Weight:150g

Dimensions:197 x 129 x 23 (mm)

页面参数仅供参考，具体以实物为准

书籍简介

* 孩子，虽然这是你的人生，但爸爸有一些经验，你z好早点知道。

* 《外婆的道歉信》《清单人生》《时间的礼物》作者巴克曼，首部非虚构随笔集。

* 写给儿子的人生避坑指南。

* 养娃路上不得不吐的槽，新手奶爸的抓狂瞬间。

* 好笑但有用的人生秘籍，守则一“不要和妈妈争辩”。

* 不成文的家长守则实在太多了，评论区贡献起来？

* 没错！还是你熟悉的那个巴克曼，温暖又睿智。

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喜欢巴克曼的读者，对这本非虚构随笔集一定不会失望，还是那个熟悉的北欧治愈大叔，每一页都充满巴克曼特有的幽默、睿智、细腻和温暖。

随着孩子的降生，奶爸巴克曼体验到了忙乱和困窘，人生从此围绕着便便和奶瓶转；追在孩子后面收拾一地鸡毛；牺牲个人时间都不算什么，被剥夺睡眠才是z大的痛苦。在此过程中，他记录下许多新手父母必然经历的抓狂瞬间。虽然总有一天，孩子会长大并主宰自己的人生，但爸爸还是有责任尽早向孩子解释这个世界到底是怎么一回事：

比如宜家，没有人在宜家吵架是因为宜家本身，一对夫妻在柜子上的分歧实际上关系到彼此的包容问题，所以“不要找一个爱你优点的姑娘，而是找一个能够包容你缺点的姑娘”。

比如商品，“一生之中我们会拥有无数东西，商品不能比人还重要，所以不要太依赖任何一个物品”。

比如男子气概，“真男人也可以坐下、闭嘴并倾听，在犯错误的时候低头承认错误”。

当然，“不要和你妈争辩”也是很重要的一条“生存法则”。

13篇文章，13条好笑但有用的人生秘籍，所有的喋喋不休都是为了“保护好你，远离生活的沮丧、坎坷和不愉快”。

The #1 New York Times bestselling author of A Man Called Ove shares an irresistible and moving collection of heartfelt, humorous essays about fatherhood, providing his newborn son with the perspective and tools he’ll need to make his way in the world.

Things My Son Needs to Know About the World collects the personal dispatches from the front lines of one of the most daunting experiences any man can experience: fatherhood.

As he conveys his profound awe at experiencing all the “firsts” that fill him with wonder and catch him completely unprepared, Fredrik Backman doesn’t shy away from revealing his own false steps and fatherly flaws, tackling issues both great and small, from masculinity and mid-life crises to practical jokes and poop.

In between the sleep-deprived lows and wonderful highs, Backman takes a step back to share the true story of falling in love with a woman who is his complete opposite, and learning to live a life that revolves around the people you care about unconditionally. Alternating between humorous side notes and longer essays offering his son advice as he grows up and ventures out into the world, Backman relays the big and small lessons in life, including:

-How to find the team you belong to

-Why airports explain everything about religion and war

-The reason starting a band is crucial to cultivating and keeping friendships

-How to beat Monkey Island 3

-Why, sometimes, a dad might hold onto his son’s hand just a little too tight

This is an irresistible and insightful collection, perfect for new parents and fans of Backman’s “unparalleled understanding of human nature” (Shelf Awareness). As he eloquently reminds us, “You can be whatever you want to be, but that’s nowhere near as important as knowing that you can be exactly who you are.”

作者简介

[瑞典]弗雷德里克•巴克曼

1981年出生于瑞典赫尔辛堡，以撰写博客和专栏起家。处女作《一个叫欧维的男人》在全球创下惊人销量纪录后，第二部小说《外婆的道歉信》再掀阅读狂潮，中文版已售出100万册。这两部作品与《清单人生》一起构成“暖心三部曲”，在中国读者中收获极高人气。基于真实生活体验创作的中篇小说《时间的礼物》，则探讨了时间与爱的关系。巴克曼的写作风格轻松幽默，十分擅长呈现微小的细节，对于如何催人落泪已自成一派。

《不要和你妈争辩》是巴克曼的首部非虚构随笔集，记录了新手奶爸的种种窘态和趣事，更重要的是分享了许多好笑但有用的人生经验和观点。

如今他和妻子及两个孩子居住在瑞典斯德哥尔摩。

Fredrik Backman is the #1 New York Times bestselling author of A Man Called Ove, My Grandmother Asked Me to Tell You She’s Sorry, Britt-Marie Was Here, Beartown, Us Against You, and Anxious People, as well as two novellas and one work of nonfiction. His books are published in more than forty countries. He lives in Stockholm, Sweden, with his wife and two children.